Tricking the nature

We spent our mother-daughter Saturday morning in Bauhaus, choosing the bathroom tiles.

As a reward for being patient and (almost) helpful, Molly chose a carnivorous plant, the Venus flytrap.

She then tried to trick the plant by “making noises like a fly” and feeding the plant some paper. It didn’t work.

A healthy balance

My doctor: “You gained a bit too much weight for this stage of the pregnancy.”
Me: “How is that possible? I walk 90 minutes almost every day and I eat relatively healthy.”

Also me: finished a whole block of chocolate while watching The Apprentice on the sofa.

I got tricked again!

The evolution of thought:

2010: Life was so much easier when we didn’t have a dog.
2012: Life was so much easier with just a dog.
2015: Life was so much easier with just one child and a dog.
2018: Life was so much easier with two kids and just one dog.
to be expected in 2019: Life was so much easier with just two kids and two dogs.

I see a reoccurring pattern here and yet, every few years I get tricked! Damned those cute babies and puppies!

No food for four months

-Molly, you’ll get your dessert once everyone’s finished eating their dinner.
-Sorry, Molly, I’ll be eating for one hundred and twenty days.

Great! I don’t need to prepare any food for neither Molly nor Benny for another four months.

How to keep sane

Step-by-step guide on to how to stay sane when your young child wakes up at 4:34 at night

  1. Tell him it’s night-time and that everyone’s sleeping and why is he awake at four thirty
  2. Tell him no, it’s not eight and he can’t have any breakfast until it’s light outside
  3. Suggest he goes back to his bed. Anticipate his screaming and quickly add that you could also sleep with him in the guestroom
  4. Pretend you’re sleeping while he’s pulling your fingers and sticking his nails underneath your nails
  5. Shout at him that you’re tired, in pain and that he needs to sleep (Shouting, followed by guilt, has a calming effect on the mother)
  6. Try tickling his back following his complicated and elaborated instructions
  7. Have him shout at you for having your eyes closed because “sleeping is boring”
  8. Give up on life
  9. Tell him to go downstairs and watch his tablet. Prove you’re a good mum by adding that he should cover himself with a blanket (Your job here is done.)
  10. Forget you have children and go back to sleep. You have half an hour until the other child wakes up complaining she’s scared to be by herself in her bedroom and why is Benny not in his bed and why can Benny watch his tablet and no, she won’t get dressed because it’s not fair, mama!

Not fair indeed, child. Really not fair.

Keeping the relationship fresh

Even after ten years together, my husband still compliments me every day.

Yesterday he said: “You’re really excellent at humming that part of the song over and over and over again.”

He knows that making your partner feel special is the key to a successful relationship.

I know everything

-I know that, mama!
-You know everything, Benny…
-I don’t know everything! I don’t know how to write the letter G… Oh, wait! I know how to write G.

That’s sorted – Benny knows everything.

Except, obviously, what sarcasm is.